Is Effective Leadership missing in the Equation?

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    Is Effective Leadership missing in the Equation?

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    Is Effective Leadership missing in the Equation?

    I was reading an article this morning from Harvard Business School called American Idle: Workers Spend Too Much Time Waiting for Something to Do. It was cute, to the point, but had one thing I thought that was missing. Effective leadership was missing from the equation.

    Effective leadership was missing from the equation

    This is the type of topic that authors write about. You find one disgruntled employee who had a manager or supervisor who turned out to be the devil him or herself, and you have a story. How that story is spun will determine the type of outcome you will have. I know the problem, I want the solution. Are you that type of leader? Are you tough enough to tell the old devil where to go?

    Leadership verbiage is probably way overused by many. Leadership has to deal with taking a lead role in a project or endeavor. Leadership is not teaching someone how to fill out routine reports or turn on a computer, that’s training or guidance. It’s not leading a meeting where all you do is discuss the same thing over and over again – that’s training. It’s not filling out the same forms or collecting samples, or even answering the phones. Leadership is working with a group of people to see a project or endeavor through to the goals end. You work with everyone.

    Leadership is working with a group of people to see a project or endeavor through to the goals end.

    While your manager/supervisor may know the job well, they may not have the people skills necessary to motivate their staff. They often get by with either a micro-managing style and/or have a laissez-faire attitude toward others. That is not leadership.

    To avoid ending up with a culture of micromanaging employees trying to scrape together work from the bottom of the barrel, keep your communications open and active. Be active, and help your employees develop their own work ethic – by modeling those same good ethics you want to see. Show them a leader they can work beside. Notice that I didn’t say follow – I said, work beside.

    Show them a leader they can work beside 

    Outcomes are what matters to the client or your future prospects. As long as you are meeting their goals, they’re happy. Are you also happy? What about your employees?

    Leadership, management, community outreach, research, training, they all mean very different things to different people.  What I know, is that you need to be able to show your work. In any working relationship, you should be able to reflect on your leadership skills and provide guidance in the direction you want your team to go. Some examples:

    1.    Show me your teamwork, and how you manage challenges together

    2.    Show me leadership that moves others into motion

    3.    Tell me how you perform community outreach

    4.    Show me how you motivate your employees to increase productivity

    5.   While doing research did you actively engage in experimentation that provided you and your team with factual data that could be useful to your organization or business? What was your teams feedback?

    6.   Training usually has some long-term benefit, plus you provide your team with material or backup data. Where do you store your assessment data? How does your team use that data?

    7. Do your employees enjoying engaging with you?

    Leaders know that we can’t all be managers or supervisors. You have to be able to delegate and let go of some of the controls in order for your vision to manifest itself. Nor can we thrive in a constant environment without some form of monetary benefit keeping us afloat. We need to learn to pace ourselves – and offer others the same pace. Different jobs/tasks require different paces.

    As stated above: Leadership has to deal with taking a lead role in a project or endeavor.

    Leadership is more about directing others and assuming a role of authority and taking responsibility for that position. When you do community outreach, that generally entails that you have many contacts and work through those contacts to form some sort of alliance that has a similar goal. It is a bringing together of large circles of people, employees, businesses, and community leaders for the common good or goal.

    You have a completely different ideology about what constitutes leadership skills. For instance,  I have an aversion to those who claim certain skill sets that are not unique to them. On-the-other-hand, I enjoy those professionals who are willing to discuss even the more basic skills they possess. Basically, unless I know you personally, the only thing I can pretty much assume is that you can type, talk, or maybe turn a wrench. I can probably glean a fair amount of information from your writings, but there has to be more. Details tend to matter, so those basic skills might just be the ticket.

    I am a professional who looks for those out of the ordinary individuals who just want to work. Individuals who want to be a part of the team. They feel good about accomplishing something, and being a part of something more.

    If you know the problem, focus instead on a solution. Lead by example.

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    The “As Usual” series

    Content creator & writer, blogger, social and digital media advocate. JB was born with a passion for writing and instructional design. JB is the owner of Radcliff Design.


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    It’s the simple things in life

    It’s the simple things in life

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    It’s the simple things in life, it really is. The simple things that make you feel good about yourself, others around you, and the world.

    I think that one of the worst things you can do is to listen to your own thoughts and try to rationalize and dwell on a stupid mistake that you might have made. There is no rationalization, you just made a mistake, own up to it, and move on. Maybe you feel that those around you really don’t know you, or understand your potential. You are just going through the daily motions of working and hoping someone will notice something good that you did that day. That’s not a good work environment.

    If you are relying on others for your happiness – it won’t happen. You are responsible for your own happiness. You have to dig deep within yourself to find that spirit of truth, warmth, and happiness. It’s there – that positive wellness. You just need to start tapping into it.

    How do you change a negative situation? You change your thoughts. You start to input positive thoughts to replace the negative ones. How? You might ask. Start by doing some of the following:

    1.      Say to yourself “I am worth it”. Say it a lot. Send yourself reminders to say it! Post it on an I love me Board“. Do whatever it takes to remind yourself. You are worth it

    I love me Board ~ J. D.

    2.      Build new relationships with others in your office, and socially outside of work

    3.      If you know you are going to meet with rejection or criticism from a fellow co-worker if you ask them a question – don’t ask them! Seriously, don’t ask them. Ask someone else, or look it up yourself. Avoid their office

    4.      I understand that sometimes you have to ask a negative co-worker a question, but do so when you aren’t alone with them, so you have someone else there with you, who can see and hear the situation

    5.      Don’t allow your co-workers to take advantage of you, especially when they take extended and frequent breaks. They aren’t your boss, and it’s NOT your responsibility to babysit their job – it’s theirs. Tell them no, you are busy doing your own work. Don’t be guilted into anything!

    6.      Don’t be afraid to say “NO”

    7.      Let me say that one again. Don’t be afraid to say “NO”

    8.      If you work overtime – or pull a shift straight without any breaks, don’t let anyone make you feel guilty if you leave at a different time than he or she does. You’re on the honor system

    9.      Stop saying “I’m Sorry”. There are a million ways to correct an error without leading off with “I’m Sorry”.  Some things just need an adjustment to get them working correctly. It doesn’t mean you need to apologize for every tiny thing. Fix it if you can, and move on

    10.  Believe in yourself, and treat yourself to good things. Treat yourself daily. See #1 above for the reason why.

    It is very important that you take time for yourself. Time to relax and reflect on the things that you care about. Taking trips, and looking after your health is good for refreshing the spirit within you. When you take care of yourself, you are much more able to fight off the dreaded negatives that might pop up in your way.

    Setting Goals

    Set a goal for yourself. Start by losing some of that negative baggage in your head. Start packing positive thoughts, and use those positives each day.

    If you feel yourself slipping into temptation, and feeling down – make sure you have some backup. Find a positive buddy if you can. Someone whom you can talk to, and know that what you say won’t be broadcast to the entire office, the community, or some social network!

    It’s the simple things in life, that can lift you out from under the bus that you might feel is sitting on top of you. Set some goals! But set realistic goals.

    If you set your goals too high, too soon, you might lose your momentum. You can have long-term goals – but you need small milestone goals along the way as well. Treat yourself well, and treat yourself often! Milestones!

    Treat yourself well, and treat yourself often! Milestones!

    I will be honest, some days it is hard to stay positive, and stick to my goal. But what I have discovered is if you immediately come back with a positive, after a negative confrontation – you can de-escalate, and/or completely defuse a situation. Nine times out of 10, coming back with a positive will work in your favor.

    Goal Helpers – For Directing Positive Thinking

    ·        Do good always

    ·        Always smile and greet those you work with each morning, especially the grouchy ones

    ·        Thank people when they help you, and even when they can’t. At least they listened

    ·        Tip the waiter or waitress, even the bad ones

    ·        Pet your puppy dog

    ·        Wave at your neighbor or say Hi

    ·        Hold the door for someone

    ·        Complement someone when it is earned

    ·        Treat yourself daily to positives

    ·        Laugh often and loudly. Laugh at yourself.

    Keep up the positives and soon you will begin to see the positives coming out in others around you. Never give up, and never give in. You can change your own environment! Just stay positive.

     

    The “As Usual” series

    Content creator & writer, blogger, social and digital media advocate. JB was born with a passion for writing and instructional design. JB is the owner of Radcliff Design.


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    The year is 1982, and my little family was green before green was cool

    The year is 1982, and my little family was green before green was cool

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    The year is 1982, and my little family was green before green was cool. Fast-forward to 2018, I wonder if our ideas and what we learned in the early 80’s could outlast the years. I thought so. If nothing else, it would get those creative juices flowing for those who like to tinker with new ideas. We were green before green was cool.

    We were green before green was cool.

    As I have aged, I’ve been judged for a lot of things – one being that I’m not an environmentalist. I think too “locally” to ever be a true environmentalist. I’m too old school. That term environmentalist (or conservationist) unfortunately, has been improperly used by some to lump together a whole segment of the population that doesn’t transcribe to a certain set of ideologies. That term may be used globally, nationally, or regionally, but unfortunately, it isn’t necessarily applicable to each demographical region or sect.  I’m what people call “a local“.

    I’m what people call ” a local“.

    Welcome to the 80’s!

    I take in the view of my garden and lush fruit trees in the yard – it’s a joyful time. Sitting in the back of yard with my two daughters ages 1  and 3. They are digging happily in the sandbox under the grape canopy that trellises over the back patio. It is cool and the flowers make the atmosphere pleasant and inviting. There is a large orchard just a hop-skip-and-jump from my backyard.   The farmers are starting to setup truckloads of fresh produce, and my spouse has headed down to the pickup area to retrieve the bushels we have ordered.

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    A lot of plants are coming into the season, and I’ve been busily getting my canning jars prepared, and setting up my cooking area. Can’t wait to taste the apricot jam and grape jelly, that we as a family will prepare together.  I  also anticipate that those bushels of peaches will be a  sweet treat, and the babies will love them.

    My own little garden has a number of seasonal vegetables ripe for the harvesting. I like to freeze our vegetables, so part of the cooking that will take place over the next day or so, will involve some blanching to prepare and store our own little backyard harvest.

    It’s 1982, and we were living off the land, and having fun doing it. We were gardening, hunting and fishing, gathering our own wood for winter, and inventing and using our own innovations to create a sustainable home environment for our little family.

    We didn’t have a label back then. By 2018 standards, we would have met a lot of the criteria for the label of an environmentalist.  But those ideological labels for the working class hadn’t been invented yet. We were just known as good neighbors in the 80’s.  I was a typical stay at home housewife, and my spouse who worked long hours on a drilling rig were just looking out for our small family and home. It was the way things were in the 80’s – in the small industrial mining community of Moab Utah.

    There were roughly around 8000 people countywide, winter, spring, summer, and fall. The population didn’t fluctuate much.   The air was clean and clear, and the landscape was pristine. The mountain trails were well maintained, and the cattle roamed free. It was a great place to work and raise a family.

    When innovation and being green wasn’t cool

    Batch Solar Water Heater

    We used to enjoy experimenting with the newest little fads we would hear about. Solar power was a fad just coming out in the 80’s. I subscribed to all the DIY solar books back then!  It was something we could tinker with as a family, and we did. Our little experimentation with solar power had people driving by our home taking pictures of our creations. We even had people knocking on our door wanting to ask questions.

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    Our first creation was an outside solar hot water heater, made out of nothing more than an old freezer box, and water tank. We didn’t even get a building permit – we just built it. For 2018 – I suggest you get a building permit.

    If you can get a good water heater that doesn’t have a lot of sediment in the bottom – that will be wise before starting this project. A lot of times you can pick up used water heaters for free when people are doing remodels in their homes.  For the box that your water heater will sit in, we used an old stand up freezer (freezer boxes are better than refrigerator boxes) for the shell. We saved the freezer door so that in the winter months we could cover the front to protect it from the elements. We also had two small children, so of course, we had to childproof the box. The outside cover had grooves we could side the cover into and then lock it down into place for storage.  We used real locks.

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    Plumbing is very important – you want to use good plumbing materials because if you plan to bring pipes into your home to reach your inside water heater, you don’t want any leaks or breaks.  You want to be able to shut off your outside tank from your inside tank for the winter months as well.  You’ll need a damper to shut that flow off. Then blow the pipes for winter.

    Building the unit is easy, it’s the plumbing that will need your attention the most.

    When constructing our model, we experimented with different angles for our tank and then anchored the unit into place once the angle for optimal water flow was right. On the Inside of the box, we used a CURVED reflective Parabolic cylinder material that helped reflect the sunlight (prism) on the back and sides of the tank. We covered the front with a thick weather durable clear material that allowed unobstructed reflective sunlight inside the box.  All the pipes and fixtures were hidden, and the unit sat neatly next to the outside entrance to our family hot water heater. We received the benefit of using both tanks having them located so close to each other.

    Of course, a little flower garden box covered the bottom of the shell so that it looked like part of the connecting house.

    Use your wood stove to heat water

    We used our solar water heater up until it started getting too cool in the fall. Since we lived in the desert of SE Utah, we benefited from the dry heat and longer summer days. Placement of your tank around your home for the best amount of spring and fall sunlight is important.

    You can construct a top mount tank on your home, but that will require a lot more “innovation” on your part, as well as money.

    We tinkered with using a wood stove to heat the water up in the winter months, but with small children in the house, we hadn’t mastered how we would hide the pipes. So, we opted to not do that project in 1982. But we did have a design created. Here are some ideas on the internet for the innovative types:

    Wood stove tips

    We went through a couple wood stoves when we first started out. We finally were able to get a stove that was comfortable for our home.  I liked the ability to have a large open face fire for comfort, plus have a cooking top when I wanted to slow simmer stews or make soft candy.  In the 80’s we tinkered with installing blowers on our wood stove, so the hot air could be pumped into the vents in the house. Most of these items now come standard with wood stoves in 2018.

    There are some tips you should look into before you buy your first stove. Caution: Preparing your roof, walls, ceiling, and floors are “critical”!

    Collecting firewood without harming the environment, plus getting the necessary wood permits are things to consider when you start looking into wood stoves. In 2018 many people like wood chips stoves, but in the 80’s they weren’t yet available.

    Winter boxes for plants

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    In the winter months I liked to experiment with out of season plants. My greatest success was with strawberries.  I was growing strawberries near a bathroom window. For some reason this area of the house was the only place they would grow. I was disappointed in the kitchen window.

    Since I wasn’t planning on doing any hardcore inside growing – I just stuck to window boxes. You can experiment with a lot of different designs and test your own indoor growing skills.

    Cooling your home

    During the summer months, I only had the standard gas bill that lets you maintain service. Electricity was the biggest cost in the summer months because we had to keep the lights and TV on. With a 1 and 3 year old, Sesame Street was a MUST have!

    We had hardly any air conditioning costs. We used what we liked to call – the grapevine method.  Our own terminology of course.  In the desert climate, our design for our home worked great, because we did not have all the humidity to contend with.

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    This project was a no-brainer – but fun for us as a family. We had rather large grapevines that grew up and over a shaded patio area, and attached to the side of the house. Large windows could be opened to allow the cool drafts of air to come in from the shaded area outside.

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    We also had roof vents installed that helped circulate the air inside the entire house. Since heat rises, we rarely had to use fans to circulate the air. In the heat of the summer, the temperate outside would range between 85 and 98. Inside the home, it was always a cool 70 to 73 degrees (with a slight breeze).

    The roof vents had dampers installed so if need be, we could seal them off to maintain the inside air temperature.

    On those days when the temps reach over 100, we would adjust the cooler on low, or set up an overhead fan in reverse to help pull more hot air upward out of the roof vents.

    The trick we learned was to install a cool mister within the grapevines themselves. If you put moisture on the vines in the early morning, that was best. It was cheaper than using an electric swap cooler or refrigerated air conditioner; it helped conserve both water and electricity.

    ALL THINGS EATABLE

    Food storage – canning & freezing ideas – and working with game meats

    I’ve used both boiling water canners and pressure cookers. I’ve learned how to properly dress out a wild game animal, and prepare it for freezing as well.  While we also wanted to get a smoker, that didn’t happen – we were caught up in too many other innovative projects that kept us too busy in 1982.

    Thinking about canning?

    You have to prepare for canning. I got lucky because my spouses’ great aunt had a lot of additional canning jars that she gave me. I just had to buy the seals and lids. You can pick up a lot of additional canning jars at yard sales also. Check community online groups to see if anyone has jars they want to sell you at a low cost.  Be prepared for closeout supermarket sales – you would be surprised how easy it is to get started. Share with a neighbor and split the costs.

    You will need to get yourself a good size pressure cooker that you can fit up to at least “8” big mouth quart jars in; for canning meats and some vegetables.   Make sure the seals of your pressure cooker are new and not worn.  Know how to take care of those seals and to clean your cooker properly.

    The topper (the weight) needs to set evenly on top of your cooker but allow for steam to escape. The cooking gauge is critical – you need to follow the canning directions so you don’t undercook or overcook. You have some studying to do if canning is your next new experiment. Safety of your equipment, food handling, and of course proper cooking temperatures and time are all factors to think about.

    Canning Trivia

    Knowing how many bushels of peaches will yield you X amount of jars is a must.  Get out your calculator and start adding. Being stuck with way too much product is an expense and waste. If you don’t have a fruit and vegetable dryer – you might want to invest in one. This could save you money in the long run; for when you miscalculate. It happens to us all. You can always bake pies!

    You can always bake pies!

    Get a group of your family together when it comes time to prepare your fruit for canning. Cutting and pealing time is expedited when you have help.

    Here is a helpful canning link to get you started:

    Kids and Family Favorites

    Fish (something you probably didn’t know)

    Trout fish, canned, tastes like tuna fish. Yes, you can make tasty sandwiches with it, or use it in salads. A dab of salt and a ½ teaspoon of vinegar in each canning jar along with the prepared fish helps to soften the bones during the pressure cooking process.  The same process they use for tuna without all the icky additives.

    • To properly skin a trout fish, first freeze it in water, and then when you defrost it, the skin slips off easily in one pull. I don’t like trout skin – so this was something I had to learn real fast

    Jams and jellies 

    Apricot jam is great on pancakes.  Sliced peaches and pears can be a family treat during the cold winter months. No preservatives, no additives – kids love them, especially over homemade ice cream.

    Cold storage root cellar

    You can create your own root cellar area under or near your home where you can store things like onions, potatoes, pumpkins, and all those nicely filled canned jars of love. Do some research on this one. Make sure small animals and creepy crawlies can’t get into your supply either.

    Hunting and the outdoor experience

    I get it! Not everyone likes meat. But the principles behind storage are pretty much the same when it comes to protecting your food supply.

    I get it! Not everyone likes meat

    Could be you like to hunt deer, elk, rabbit, or go fishing, etc. There is a lot of wild game that can be hunted, it just depends on where you live. Hunting is a sport and a livelihood for many. You also have the bow, black powder, and rifle seasons to factor in. What works best for you and your family– is ultimately up to you when it comes to hunting.

    Then there are elements like hunting licenses, gun care, camping, and boating,  that also add to your well rounded outdoor hunting experience.  Don’t forget those. We used hunting season as quality family time. Mountains, camping, hunting, and boating are kind of synonymous with our family.

    Preparing for long-term food storage

    So you just bagged your first 7 point buck of the season. How you dress out your prize hunt and prepare it for long-term storage is very important. A deep freezer is a great way to store your food when you have bulk game meat. Some people like stand-up freezers, while others like chest freezers. I prefer the standup, but it’s all about what you like.

    Specially designed freezer bags and wrapping paper are a must to avoid freezer burn on your food.  If you use baggies, make sure they say, “FREEZER BAG” on the outside. Then you need to carefully wrap your food as well. Have you thought about freezer paper? I prefer freezer paper over aluminum foil. I could never get the whole aluminum foil thing.

    Properly dating your food containers is equally important. Whether you are freezing meat or freezing fruits and vegetables – there is some preparation involved.

    You can’t just slap your food into a sandwich baggie and throw it into the freezer! That would get you in a whole lot of trouble at my house. Freezing vegetables for example – let’s use corn. You first need to do a process called blanching. I prefer to freeze vegetables over canning them.   But I prefer canning fruits (and some meats) over freezing. You must find out what works best for you.

    Costs

    When I factor in all the man hours and standard costs from the 1980’s and compare it with 2018 – it is similar. Why? Because it was free, sustainable, and we did it ourselves.

    • In 1982  I  was spending about 30 to 50  dollars for electric and gas combined during the middle of winter.  My conventional neighbor was spending 180 a month combined during the height of winter.
    • In 2018, you would still spend around 40 to 50 dollars combined just for standard utility fees. Your conventional 2018 neighbor will spend around 180 upward to 300 a month!
    • In 1982 I spent maybe 80 a month in the winter at the grocery stores for general staples items. We bought in bulk in the summer months, so the lean winters weren’t as harsh.
    • 2018 – that is still doable. You just need to know when and where to shop.

    Today in 2018, am I an environmentalist? Probably not. I don’t live like I was in 1982 – but neither do any of my neighbors. Even the environmentally inclined don’t live like I did in 1982. Their carbon footprint (an ideological term of the new era) is about the same as mine.  Yet my neighbors consider themselves environmentalists because they think globally. I think locally, and therefore I am judged as a non-environments.  I am what you call “a local”.

    I am what you call “a local”.

    I lived in the 80’s when green wasn’t cool. In the 80’s we were innovating and experimenting with the tools and mechanics that the next generation would learn from.


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    Leadership Quiz Night

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    Leadership Quiz Night! Leadership, social media, community outreach, research, and training, they all mean very different things to different people.  What I have learned is that you need to be able to show your work. In a job interview, that can become a very interesting prospect to have thrown at you – unaware. It’s those little questions….

    1. Show your work
    2. Show me leadership.
    3. Tell me how you perform community outreach.
    4. How many hours a day do you work in social media?
    5. How many social media applications can you link?
    6. What is content marketing for social media?
    7. While doing research did you actively engage in experimentation that provided you with factual data that could be useful to your organization or business?
    8. Training usually has some long-term benefit, plus you provide your learners with material or backup data, where do you store your assessment data?

    Have we reached the end of sensibility? The honest answer is – maybe. Can we thrive in a constant environment without some form of monetary benefit keeping us afloat? Probably not. Our skills are our bread and butter. We need to be able to sell those skills and sell them well. Some people don’t even know they have certain skills. Testing yourself, and really examining what you do and don’t know can help you in your quest to be in that perfect position.

    Have we reached the end of sensibility? The honest answer is – maybe

    Back to my initial statement, leadership, social media, community outreach, research, and training, they all mean very different things to different people. Words DO matter. Depending on the words you use, they may ultimately define your role in the working environment. They may also generate feelings, good or bad. I have learned the meaning of stress, and words that I associate with that stress are called project management and strategic planning. I’m not saying they are bad positions, but anyone who has ever been in a position where a large chunk of your daily role was finding yourself buried under a deadline, client concerns, and underperforming managers – you’ll understand. They can be fun roles also; if you like the fast and furious pace that they often take. Yea…I lived for that crap!

    Yea…I lived for that crap!

    Leadership verbiage is probably way over-used by many. Leadership has to deal with taking a lead role in a project or endeavor. Leadership is not teaching someone how to turn on a computer or find information, that’s training or guidance. It’s not leading a meeting where all you do is discuss the same thing over and over again – that’s training.

    Leadership is more about directing others and assuming a role of authority and taking responsibility for that position. When you do community outreach, that generally entails that you have many contacts and work through those contacts to form some sort of alliance that has a similar goal. It is a bringing together of large circles of people, businesses, and community leaders for the common good.

    When you do community outreach, that generally entails that you have many contacts and work through those contacts to form some sort of alliance that has a similar goal. It is bringing together large circles of people, businesses, and community leaders for the common good

    Some people may have a completely different ideology about what constitutes certain skill sets. I have an aversion to those who claim certain skill sets that are not unique to them. On-the-other-hand, I enjoy those professionals who put Customer Service or Volunteer on their list of skills.

    Basically, unless I know you personally, the only thing I can pretty much assume is that you can type. I can probably glean a fair amount of information from your writings, but there has to be more. Details tend to matter. I want to know you. I don’t want memorized words, I want you to know what you are good at.

    Leadership Quiz Night!

    Here are some fun little tools to test your skills. It’s all hypothetical of course, it won’t determine your life work. You might be a master of your craft, and end up with a weak score. It’s a reality check, but a fun one. What are you really good at? Are you too good? Can you laugh at yourself and with others when you look at your own scores? It puts you on an equal playing field with all those who work around you. A little bit of humility goes a long way in building true character.

    Have fun with these freebie tests 

    Have fun learning what you are good at. Take a good hard look at your resume. If you have done the skills, and actually understand the meaning of the skill, leave it on there. If you have tinkered with a skill, be very cautious about misrepresenting who you are and what you do. Lastly. Don’t dummy down your skills for no one.

    Don’t dummy down your skills for no one

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    Change how you think - and you will change your life

    Change how you think – and you will change your life

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    By nature, you are happy, caring, respectful, and have a deep appreciation for those around you. You are a good person. Yet some days you feel like “meh“.

    It’s a jolt to your happy-go-lucky self, to have to put up with other people who don’t feel good about themselves; or anything in general. In fact, they feel so bad about themselves and their plight in society, that they want to make everyone around them feel just as miserable. They like to control, their bossy, whiny, vindictive, and they want to be YOUR friend.

    Don’t pay the ransom – I escaped!

    I escaped from the “meh” mindset – and so can you. Change how you think, and you will change your life. Getting caught up in “thinking” about what others say and do really isn’t in your best interest. By doing that, you end up becoming paranoid, defeated, you lose creativity, and your peaceful way of life gets disrupted. The “meh” can wear you down over time.

    I drive mean people nuts – I know that. But that is really not my problem, it is theirs. I am able to articulate the positive emotions that bring me joy. I say it to their face. I am able to move on quickly when face-to-face with mean people. I do it deliberately and with no remorse. The less space (time) I spend with them the better. By giving up more space to them, I wouldn’t be making any headway with them – so it is just as easy to nip the conversation in the bud and move on quickly.

    I drive mean people nuts – I know that. But that is really not my problem, it is theirs

    The chances are that mean person in your life, will continue to be mean. If they were mean when you first met them, they will continue to be mean; while looking for ways to bring you to their level of “meh“. They want to know what you are doing. Don’t tell them. Not unless they have a “REAL” need to know. But I would still hold back. Less is more.

    Yes, they will think all kinds of cruel and untrue things about you. Yes, they will close their doors, and with others who have been sucked into their “meh”, laugh and talk about you.

    Still – don’t tell them anything. Just stand your ground, far-far-away from them. Are you feeling better yet? You should! There is an old saying “What other people think about you, is none of your business”. It’s true, and the sooner you learn to ignore it the better you will feel. I’m going to tell you why.

    I’m going to tell why!

    Start to fill your mind with happy thoughts. Who knows, you may be one of the very few who are escaping the daily torment, while your co-worker is getting hammered by this guy or gal. Ever hear your co-worker complain that they go home each night feeling anxious, worried, and defeated? It’s because they made the decision to stay and listen to “meh”. They don’t know how to get out. They would rather be laughing with you – the happy one.

    You need to be surrounding yourself with happy people. Do things for yourself. Things that make you feel important. Because you are important. Be open to others who are also open. Take walks, or look out the window and view the world outside. Call someone special, listen to a nice song. Pet your dog, travel, go out to dinner with friends, and laugh a lot! Factor in these type of behaviors into your daily routine, and practice them religiously.

    If you change how you react, plus your response time around mean people, you will start to gain back your positive mojo again. Once you have finally shut the “meh” up – don’t look back. Don’t feel sorry for them either. Not unless you feel a “meh” coming on.

    Change how you think, and you will change your life. You will be happy at your job, or with a relationship again. You will feel more creative, and full of pep. You will be glad to greet new challenges with a willingness to be active and helpful. Life is what you make of it – so, change how you think – and you will change your own life.

    Change how you think, and you will change your life.


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    How to keep from falling behind, when you are already ahead - STOP

    How to keep from falling behind, when you are already ahead – STOP

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    How to keep from falling behind, when you are already ahead – Stop.  A lot of us live our lives like this. Meeting deadlines, negotiating deals, setting up operations or systems. Once you are caught up and on track, you still sense a little nagging thought in the back of your mind that says “I gotta keep going”. “I can’t relax”.  I’m all caught up, but why do I feel like I’m late?

    I’m all caught up, but why do I feel like I’m late?

    Just recently I finished a project that was eating up a lot of my time, and left me feeling on the edge of my seat. If I finished the project early, someone would think I didn’t have enough to do. If I finish late, some might think I’m not staying on task. You can’t win in this scenario. When you experience this phenomenon enough times, you’re body and mind learn that, business, work, and life, are all done in constant distraction mode.

    PUSH STOP!

    It’s one thing to work hard, it’s another to balance that hard work with a good measure of life balanced activities; including downtime. Many have been in distraction mode for so long, they don’t know how to de-escalate, and build in life balance measures for their lives.

    STOP THE STRESS

    The old saying that failure to plan on your part does not mean action on my part – that often sneaks into the equation when dealing with other distracted co-workers. As the cycle of the day runs its course, people will ride the working wave at different times, locations, levels, and mindsets. A lot of times the mindsets don’t equal each other. We all have our high and low points during the day.

    How is your stress today? Stressed much?

    Stress plays a big factor in your overall health, and I think we all know that. There are a lot of experts out there, which give us any number of remedies and cures for how to deal with stress. Finding which remedy works for you is a process. My hopes are that you have others around you who will act as a support team to help you find just the right remedy or process to gain and keep your health on track.

    Just the word stress, can be a trigger for some people

    Stress has a lot to do with our body’s vital organs and the health of those organs. It is important to tell your doctor about changes in your mood so that you can discuss treatment options best suited for you. Working on your own internal senses to build yourself up and maintain a healthy state of mind, is so important to the quality of your life. Did you know that the very act of caring creates resilience, and in turn helps the body to not overreact to stress?

    Talk Therapy is also a great way to talk through those situations that you might be holding onto unnecessarily. Talk Therapy is also great for creating new conversations and opening up doors to collaborations; about things you might have wanted to explore but were always afraid to try.

    How to keep from falling behind, when you are already ahead – STOP

    The fight or flight mechanism which is a built-in survival tool becomes unhealthy for our bodies when we are subject to it in a never-ending cycle. Taking control of our stress and making it your friend, gives you the upper hand, and helps you keep your body chemistries more in line with those of a healthy lifestyle.

    If you are stressed over past events or situations you had no control over, you have to learn to let go of that negativity. Holding onto that toxicity will only create an unhealthy outcome. For those who suffer from health issues, gaining the upper hand over your emotions and thoughts could extend your life. Even add years.

    I know that by just being kind when you have it in your power to do so, will give you strength in your personal life; that includes your health. The benefits are rewarding.

    Don’t let work rob you of your life. Put stress on notice, as well as any difficult co-worker. Be willing to speak up, out, and overcome the stress. Find that niche where you feel comfortable. Buy yourself a stop button and start using it.

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    Business Walks for Creativity - All Seasons.

    Business Walks for Creativity – All Seasons

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    Business Walks for Creativity – All Seasons. I watched a Ted Ex video the other day about chat walks. Taking your business meetings and making them outside meetings. Inspired by this talk, one has only to think about some of the following items:

    • decide on the location of the walk
    • the length of time available to walk
    • whom you will meet with
    • what you will discuss
    • and the weather of course.

    The amount of stress alone saved in taking a chat walk is worth its weight in gold. It also helps to cut your blood pressure down, beef up your cardio, raise those happy endorphin’s, and bring a level of wellness to your entire body. Many exclaimed that walking and creativity go hand and hand.

    Many exclaimed that walking and creativity go hand and hand.

    Save a back – your own! You have to get up away from that desk, put the mouse down, lace up a pair of tennis shoes, and head out the door. Find someplace, any place, where you can take your meetings to another level; one that risks going outside and breathing in fresh air, and feeling the warm sunshine on your skin. Walking has been proven to enhance your mental health as well as your physical health.

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    GRADUATION! Turning 18 – Looking Forward To That Day.

    Turning 18 – Looking Forward To That Day

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    Turning 18 – Looking Forward To That Day. Turning 18 is a milestone in any young person’s lifetime. It is a time of celebration and joy. You will have met one of the longest challenges we adults face, K-12 education. You will be able to mark that off your bucket list as DONE! However, the road doesn’t end there. Neither does your bucket list.

    GRADUATION! Turning 18 – Looking Forward To That Day.

    That list branches off instead. There are so many more roads to travel. Picking that next road right out of high school is often the one that will truly lead us to that person we will eventually become someday. It will be that road that is one of the first adult crossroads you will encounter in your lifetime. Not the last, far from it, but maybe one of the most transformational ones.

    I just went to my 40-year class reunion. Talk about a time warp! Wow! Nevertheless, getting the chance to listen to many of them talk about the paths they had been on over the years was enjoyable. There were a number of successful people in the group, a few sad moments as I learned of those that had passed away, and a few ho-hums. Some never left our hometown, yet here we are; just glad to be back, for this one special day. Together we have one connection, one bond – our youth. We didn’t stop being friends because we went to college, or started working – we were still bonded. Bonded in those friendship sealed years ago.

    Looking back at all those goals we set.

    College is a very short educational journey that helps set us up for the right path – and encourages us to choose better directions for ourselves and our future families. This is a decision that is NOT solely guided by our parents or our peers (friends). They aren’t going to take the tests for us, or turn the corners of pages either – that is left up to us. Only we, ourselves, can make those decisions, and take those actions. It’s a decision we choose for ourselves based on goals we set in K-12. Just having a “goal” back then, that was the first step in our journey. We didn’t know then what we were creating. We were creating our own futures.

    We were creating our own futures

    The time you will spend in college is very short, even if you ultimately go for a master’s degree or higher. When it is over, you will wish those college days were back!

    I get it – not everyone wants to go to college

    I understand that some are just work bound. They can’t wait. There is too much going on in their own heads to spend time in the classroom. To those, I say “good luck”. I’ve known many successful individuals who opted to not go to college, and they have done very well. There are others who are still not getting started in college or work. If you still can’t get started – go back to school! I do not care how old you are, or where you are in your life. Do it for you. Education will change you – for the better. Maybe it’s a certificate program, a construction trade training, associates, or 3-month training. Whatever – just do it for you.

    So much fun to look forward too.

    Did you know that most people develop many of their lifelong friendships while in college? It’s true. Those people, friends, your working network will be established while in college. It was true for me too.

    The things you will be able to do while in college should both astound you and inspire you. There are so many events and fun happenings on campus. I wonder sometimes how much work goes into just keeping events going. There are lots of activities you can get involved in. You just have to be willing to participate.

    Career minded

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    The best time of your life will be while you are in college. You will be free to be that person you always thought was hiding under the surface. It’s an exciting time! Yes, there is homework – but its more directed toward your career now. That’s the difference.

    The educational experience while in college isn’t like high school. There is freedom on the campus’. It’s the freedom you have been looking for. It’s the freedom to become that person you always wanted to be. Chances are, you may even meet your lifelong partner there. That isn’t such a bad thought when you think about it. Having someone who is just as likeminded as you are about their goals – is a win-win for your both your futures. Think about it.

    Letting go – beyond high school

    Anyone who keeps you from your goal is not your real friend. Your real friends will encourage you to get your education and reach your goals. Go to college, or technical training, and have some fun while you are young! Those college years are the best years of your life – don’t let anyone steal that from you.

    Hopefully, many of your friends will go to college as well! You should encourage them.

    College is a well laid out path. A good path. A fun path. Who doesn’t like fun?

    Some little-trivia about college:

    • 54% of students live at home for the first year while attending college (free food | free rent)
    • The closer you live to campus, the more successful you will be in college
    • Many students don’t even have a car or a computer. They use public transportation and computer labs on campus
    • Meet their lifelong friends and/or partner while attending college
    • Launch some of the most successful careers through networks you build during your college years. Use those networks years after you have left college
    • Make better lifelong decisions | you become better long-term thinkers
    • Enjoy your social life more
    • Are more productive workers | learn discipline
    • Have more money (to buy things like new cars)
    • Family relationships are better – because “YOU” matter in the decision-making process (you have a say)
    • Travel more in the summer when you learn about new places and events
    • Social experiences are more enriched (games and activities) It’s huge at college
    • If you work and go to college – you are amongst 70 or more% of those attending. If you are taking a full load, don’t work any more than 20 hours if you can. I understand that isn’t always the case – but shoot for that number if you can (20 hours). Many college students work on campus, doing campus jobs
    • Internships are available to help place you in jobs outside of campus that meet your degree requirements. So be looking for those opportunities

    The number one thing to remember when you walk into your college or university is that “they were expecting you”! They were expecting you, and you are accepted there with all your faults, dreams, and aspirations. They will help mold you, and fold you into the person you will become.

    At the crossroad. Examples of friends

    Are you a real friend? Then encourage your friends to follow their dreams. Not your dreams – but their dreams. If you do this, you may end up one of those lifelong friendships I spoke about above. Your friend will remember your encouragement to do the right thing. They hopefully should also encourage you to follow your dreams, but regardless, they have to follow the path that leads toward their goals. If they want to be a teacher – their teaching skills are needed now. There is a young student in their future who needs your friend now. So you will be encouraging not only your friend, but helping someone else you don’t even know.

    The reunion

    At your 40-year class reunion remember that you got there because someone in the crowd told you “Follow your Dreams”. That is your lifelong friend. Greet them with open arms, friendship, and love.

    For Taylor. Follow your dreams! Go Mavericks!

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    Working in a Tourist Town – with a Professional Team

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    Working in a Tourist Town – with a Professional Team.  A Real Team!

    I’ve worked on a multitude of different professional teams in my lifetime. Some were good, some were so-so, and some were just flat out disappointing. One particular team that I had the privilege to be a part of, rocked in every dimension. It was at the Moab Chamber of Commerce, back when I was first starting out in the business world, almost 26 years ago. The Chamber of Commerce at the time was located in the same complex as the local Grand County Travel Council.

    If you can image tourists from all walks of life, business professionals looking to relocate to the area, and local entrepreneurs seeking all forms of statistical information lining the counters and desks – that is where you would find me. Phones ringing off the wall, a million questions coming at you, and staff running around trying to get literature out to the visiting masses. That was my world.

    There were a number of things we as a team had memorized by heart, besides the brochures, and all the local attractions:

    ·       The restrooms are located around back and just across the bridge over the small dry creek

    ·       Please don’t forget your sunscreen and take plenty of water

    ·       When asked where the Arch was, we would go into a 2-minute informative speech about Arches National Park, and the many Arches contained inside the park

    ·       Yes the Chamber board is made up of elected local business owners and concerned private citizens

    ·       Economic development packets are available at our office or downtown at the County office

    ·       The film commission does not have an office in our building. Yes we have a brochure

    ·       The pool, movie theater, bike repair, and where to eat were all hot topics

    As you entered the building, there was a small room off to the left as you walked in. Housed in this room were tons of brochures and flyers on the local and recreational areas. An overhead TV played continually the lengthy jingles from the ads that help to teleport visitors minds to the great attractions that lay before them as they ventured out into the red rocks that surround my hometown.

    Often sunburned and chapped lipped youngest, fresh off a river or jeeping excursion would run to and fro before exhausted parents could gather them up in an attempt to quiet them.

    Our miracle gals behind the front counter were Jacque, Melissa, and Annie. One of them would burst out with the candy jar and take that heavy parental load off the parents and make little frowns turn into smiles as the children would gladly take the candy and whatever paraphilia was given to them. Stickers and pens, key chains and other free swag kept the kids at bay, while mom and pop looked over the brochures, planning their next family adventure.

    Tucked away in the back were Judith and Rene. They were also working steadily on the next travel council brochures and upcoming travel events. They were designing some of the first displays for their overseas trips to sell the world on the idea of the Grand Circle tour ( Zion,BryceCapitol ReefArchesCanyonlands and Grand Canyon national parks).

    Val and I had desks next to each other out in the open for the world to find us.  She could be found busy entering all the travel information requests and filling out forms and making labels for all the seasonal guiding companies who came in weekly for marketing information. I would be planning Chamber events and dealing with the business community concerns, planning parades and Chamber luncheons, and making my own packets for relocation and small business development.

    Five o’clock was a good time. We did things together. We celebrated each other’s life moments. We had Saturday coffee down the river road or gathered at someone’s house for a team get together.  We all knew our rank in the organization, it was team member. Sure we all had titles, but friend was the best one.

    So many organizations have lost the title of team and friend. Those titles have been replaced with negative titles that strip the humanity from a person and leave an empty soul in its place.

    Being part of a tourist team means

    You get up and help the gals or guys behind the counter when she or he is swamped with tourists and customers

    You grab the Chamber phone and ask for a number and get a callback

    You help your teammate by going outside with them, to tell that visitor that the bird bath is for the birds and not bathing

    You help your teammate by going outside with them, to tell that visitor that the bird bath is for the birds and not bathing

    You gently bring out the fire extinguisher when you light your best friends 30th birthday cake at 7:30 in morning

    You lock up when others can’t

    You open the building up with a smile on your face and you do it all over again with each other helping along the way

    Being a part of a team and helping to meet goals and deadlines. Just getting to the bank or the post office can be difficult. Your team helps you with even these small steps.

    Group hugs – priceless

    Watching a team member move away, or move on to bigger adventures is bittersweet. But we celebrated each other’s success and we acknowledged the fact that they were a part of who we are today – because they were in our lives.

    NOTE: My life has moved on in many directions since 26 years ago. I can say today that I enjoy my new team, and I’m excited about the adventures we will explore together! It’s those rare teams of people that life throws together at odd points in life that add value and memories of a job well done. Embrace it.

    #Bestplacestolive

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    CHART

    Disclosure – Vulnerable or Vindictive

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    Disclosure – Vulnerable or Vindictive. Focus on the chart above for a minute. Take in what it is asking you to do. Based on what you see in this decision process – which way do you anticipate you will decide to go?

    • Will you say something or not?
    • Is the disclosure (or non-disclosure)- vulnerable or vindictive?

    Now ask yourself one more question. Did you arrive at a pre-conceived conclusion that the answer to this diagram, based only on what you see, indicates you should choose to move to the left in your decision process? Maybe the red terminator button that is partially hidden on the right suggested to you that you should decide to go left on the diagram and say “Yes”.

    Now let’s look at the full diagram.

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    The Gossip BOX

    Well, now you KNOW.

    It is the second decision box that describes the situation you must face based on your first decision, which by now you know was only an incorrect assumption.

    Undoubtedly, I probably will have misguided a number of people to go the wrong way – deliberately. This doesn’t make you a bad person or a good person. The chances that you would decide to go in the other direction (right) would be about 1%. Another 1 or 2% may still be sitting on the fence, but the majority went left.

    Often we are suspectable to this type of misinterpretation in our everyday lives. People come at us from all directions, and many times we only see a sliver of an issue or an underlining problem. Yet people want answers – and they want them in a hurry. But if we only have a partial bit of information available to us, our decision processes can become a crapshoot real fast.

    Real life scenario’s push us to our limits at times. Having the time to attend to issues and give them our full attention can sometimes be stressful. Take for instance the following scenarios. What might you do to remedy one or two of them? Do you have enough information? What do you already know?

    • Scenario 1: Meeting with a group of professionals regarding a project that will have lasting benefits for the company. It is discovered that key individuals are not likely to work well together. Therefore information is not being shared.
    • Scenario 2: In a private meeting it is mentioned that someone may not have the necessary skills to accomplish a task. This according to one person only.
    • Scenario 3: I’m confronted by an individual that is worried that no one likes them and their key group of workers. States that it is common knowledge within the corporation.
    • Scenario 4: After complaining that a process is backed up and in serious jeopardy, a presenter demands that a system be implemented to help deal with their departments load. In good faith, people are hustling to find remedies and develop a strategy that will help fix the backup issues and restore confidence in the system. The original presenter then makes the comment that they wash their hands of the project and dump the load on the nearest worker.

    We have to remember that when we are presented with scenario’s like the ones above, that there is a lot more information that isn’t yet visible. As bad as I dislike meetings, they are a necessary evil to get to the core of many issues. You have to get all the players on the same sides again and determine What went right!

    What went right?

    We all should strive for a high moral within our working environments. Kick the guilt shaming, nitpicking, and arrogant players to the curb. Sometimes you have to roll up your sleeves and do the dirty work of correcting the problem(s) yourself. You have to look at the entire picture and make sure the pieces are in the correct place. Lay a foundation of respect with those you work with and make sure that each person has a piece of that respect. If they lose your respect it should only be for something that was cruel, malicious, and negligent toward corporate values. You have to look at the whole flow chart.

    You have to look at the whole flowchart

    When you look at the whole flowchart, then you can better determine if Disclosure is Vulnerable or Vindictive.

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